We live in a world where most people won’t pull you up for positive criticism, largely because many people don’t like criticism. People will feel rude to give you advice regarding your dress and bearing so no one utters a word. So, out of being polite and respectful people just let you carry on. I for one would love to be told if I’m doing something not so right so I can correct myself., after all – criticism breeds improvement, right? Unfortunately, to be honest and forward with someone can be misconstrued as rude – we live in a world where preserving feelings is more important than conveying facts. Criticism is great, it makes the learning process quicker! But that’s not what this blog is about.
While some or all of these blunders might seem obvious to you, they might not be quite as obvious to others. The following are 5 dress and bearing blunders to avoid:
1. The black shirt
While this isn’t a definite no-no, a business shirt connoisseur (if such a person exists) would advise against wearing a black shirt during the day. Black is generally attributed to evening wear. Stick to light to medium colours, not only are these a more suitable dress option in but they are just more vibrant, and vibrance is good!
2. The loose tie
Gents, tighten your ties! It’s understandable that sometimes they might come a bit loose during the day but make it a habit to occasionally give your tie the tug. Nothing looks sloppier than a tie that has become loose.
3. The shaggy hair
Get a haircut, please. It’s for your own good.
4. The mumble
Talk with pride, talk with conviction. Deliver your facts strongly! If your verbal composure is such that it is mumbled or flat, as if you’re talking to your mate at 2AM while eating a pizza and drunk, then you’re doing it wrong. Talk with clarity – it will give you that edge and authority that you so desire!
5. The body language
Hands out of your pockets. When you’re providing customer service, talking to a client or even talking to your boss, make sure your body language is not sloppy. This includes keeping your hands out of your pockets, not leaning against something, and not having your arms crossed. Do you know why Italians are good at sales and convincing people to do things? They use their arms and hands. Get into it!
Start to self assess your composure and consider these points. Self improvement is a great thing but a very dangerous phenomenon is “not knowing what you don’t know”. If any of these apply to you then now you know and you can correct them.
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